給信用破產的朋友的電郵 (一)

電郵主題為:
Tristan - 陳啟光, 你太愛面子了. 你已經信用破產了, 別再自欺欺人, 面對現實, 腳踏實地做人, 可以嗎?

Tristan - 陳啟光,

你說過，你是因為自己的愛侶及家人不幸患上癌症，才會意志消沉，才會自暴自棄，才會辭去國泰的高薪厚職，你覺得真的會有人信你嗎？

你說過，你是因為要支持及幫助你的愛侶及家人對抗病魔，才會四處問人借錢，你覺得真的會有人信你嗎？

退一步來說，就當我是唯一相信你沒有講大話的知已，你這樣的自暴自棄的做人處事方式，算是愛的表現嗎？

基督教聖經歌林多前書十三章四至八節
愛是恆久忍耐，又有恩慈；
愛是不嫉妒；
愛是不自誇，不張狂，不作害羞的事，不求自己的益處，不輕易發怒，不計算人的惡，不喜歡不義，只喜歡真理；
凡事包容，凡事相信，凡事盼望，凡事忍耐。
愛是永不止息。

Bible Conrinthians I Chapter13 Phrase 4~8
Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy,
it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.


真愛，是讓人積極向上的原動力，你這樣自暴自棄、遊手好閒、不務正業，算是愛的表現嗎？

你太愛面子了，你知道嗎？你愛面子的缺點，是你失敗的主因，你知道嗎？

你已經信用破產了。你的家人離棄你，你的朋友離棄你，你的愛侶離棄你，便是你信用破產的鐵証。

別再自欺欺人了，面對現實，腳踏實地做人，可以嗎？

2007-01-27 03:58

Tristan的回信:
Leo :I am afraid to let everyone to whom your previous E-mail sent that I am not so called "CRAZY"... I am Sorry to let you guys know that Leo has Bi-polar disorder (中譯: 兩極情緒失控症, 情緒病的一種) ...which is manic (中譯: 狂躁抑鬱症, 情緒病的一種) - depression ...

I think he is getting worst at the moment ... He even sue his sister because of money ....

And he went to the Psychotic Hosiital for twice ... and If he is in Manic state, he will do something Crazy , just like last E-mail ..and I was Yell by him on the street few months ago cause he was in manic state.

Although he is taking Medicine ... but it's just his trick to prove that his mental condition can find a lawyer to sue his sister and family because of money.

By the way ...I know what is Love and according to my situation at the moment ..I have no choice cause my first priorty has to face my mother and my lover's cancer ...

And I NEVER said that I won't get a job and I lent money everywhere ..... It's all Leo's thoughts.

And I think he is accusing me, which is unfair to me.

Leo : Please get a real psychotic doctor which is from government hosiptal ..... It is better than you find someone who just gave you some "Drug" for you to prove that you are alright and sue your family ... No family Memeber won't love their son !!!!

By the way ...If you wrote me this kind of E-mail ... just let go and I will block you as well...

Best regard
Tristan
2007-01-27 19:04

註: 很有趣地, 此回信的收件者名單中, 被Tristan刻意刪除了我的電郵地址, 此信是由其他收件者轉寄給我的...